We all have fears of one kind or another, I know I have plenty, spiders, water, flying, the list goes on! For each of us the fears will always be different. I guess our fears depend on our life experiences. If like me your Mum screamed at the sight of a spider, it’s quite likely you will also have that fear too.
There is one fear that everyone seems to share and that’s the fear of failure but why are we afraid? Is failure really a fail or is it we’re looking at it the wrong way. We’ve all seen this picture where at first some will see a young woman while others will see an old lady or the one where some will see a vase while others might see two faces.
Failure isn’t failure at all, it’s a gift! It’s a time of reflection, an opportunity to learn what not to do next time. In fact with each failure we arm ourselves with the knowledge that will lead to future success. It’s how you use what you’ve learned that’s important!
Many people in business worry about failure but are we more concerned about what others think of us? I know for me this was true for so long, with each ‘knock’ I’d get distraught, I’d spend time worrying about what to do next. However, what that showed was my own insecurities and lack of confidence. Sure some people may voice their opinions some because they love and care about you and some do it in a derogatory way. Listen to those who love and care about you but take the insults and negative comments as a gift too. I personally find this difficult but I’m learning to ‘take it on the chin’ and move on and it’s certainly working for me!
Living life expecting perfection or only good comments and times is an unrealistic expectation. Looking back on my life, I can see that it’s been an interesting journey and I’ve had many ‘gifts’ that have helped shape me into the person I am today and I’m beginning to like the person I see everyday. I don’t know about you but I’m looking forward to the next chapter in my life.
So face your fear and great things will begin to happen.